Quora: What advice would you give to prospective adoptive parents?

My answer, originally posted to Quora [http://www.quora.com/If-there-was-one-or-more-piece-of-advice-you-could-give-to-propsective-adoptive-parents-what-would-it-be/answer/Sue-Raisty-Egami] . Q: If there was one (or more) piece of advice you could give to prospective adoptive parents what would it be? We are thinking of adopting one…